I was at the dentist today getting my flipper fixed and found this yummy recipe flipping through Parent magazine. (OK- I did the crazy thing and tore it out just for you)
GOOEY ENCHILADAS:
1 small yellow onion, chopped
I was at the dentist today getting my flipper fixed and found this yummy recipe flipping through Parent magazine. (OK- I did the crazy thing and tore it out just for you)
GOOEY ENCHILADAS:
My crazy bloggy friends, I’m taking the next few weeks to update our homestudy for our 2nd adoption. We had our home visit and are requesting a girl between ages 4-6, but keeping the door open wide up to 10 years old. There will still be scheduled mommyhood & adoption blog posts, as well as guest bloggers. Special note: Unfortunately, I won’t be able to respond to your bloggy emails, due to officially starting my paper-baby pregnancy and need to focus 100% on important documents that will help get the ball rolling. I call this Trimester 1: Crazy Homestudy (scones help soothe nausea!)
I reallllly love reading your bloggy comments, emails, and responding to your important adoption questions. I will return back to full speed and will respond to all emails the following weeks ahead, thank you for your understanding. New readers, I hope you will take some time to go back in time… blast to the past posts. I started blogging 3 years ago, and have posts that will hopefully inspire you as a momma, perspective adoption family or just getting to know me a little more.
Our Simply Love Shirts are available until April 4th…. end of blitz. We will continue to keep busy rolling and mailing out T shirts for you. My family wants to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping support our 2nd adoption! 100% of proceeds goes directly into our adoption account.
Please pray for our family as we start FUNraising for our adoption at crazy speed. If you want to help us raise the Program Fee- $4,500 we would be very grateful. I added a ChipIn button on the top right side.
Talk to you soon…. my crazy adoption starts today!
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I bloggy interviewed singer songwriter, Jennafer White and asked simply what inspired her to write the beautiful song, Believe. Here’s what she had to share:
Brady and I traveled to the Dominican Republic seven months into our marriage. We were SO excited to head back to the same island that we celebrated our honeymoon on and couldn’t wait to pass out bags of rice to the people we met along the way. What the Lord did to our hearts during those five short days there is incredibly hard to put into words. I had seen all the commercials, read the blogs, and sponsored the kid from Compassion— all the while knowing that “poverty” was someone else’s job to take care of. Some other Christian will step up to the plate to fix what is going on in our world. Little did I know

that the Lord was going to place such a heavy burden on my heart to help these precious and joy-filled people I met on this trip.
What we saw will forever be embedded in my mind. Their homes were made of aluminum coffee cans. Their floor was dirt. NONE of them wore shoes. Their water was brown and there was NO food. Upon arriving home I filled the picture frames in our home with photos from our trip. I didn’t want to wake up another morning and take the roof over our head, the food on our plates, the warm sheets and the carpet tickling our toes for granite!
Brady and I were leaving the last village when “Believe” first started to hum in our minds. It was then that we decided that we needed to do WHATEVER we could to help these amazing and godly people. We decided to make
an album and donate 50% of everything we made to Cross International and other ministries fighting poverty and bringing children to their forever homes. Five months into our ministry (wrent) we went full time relying on God whole-heartedly that He would provide for us while providing funds that we could send to those stricken with poverty.
For two years we traveled the country, raising money and awareness to what the Bible calls us to do as Christians. We are asked to clothe the naked, feed the hungry, adopt the orphans, visit the widows and to LOVE the least of these. It isn’t some other Christian’s job to take care of— IT’S OURS!!!!! Through adoption YOU are loving on the least of these. YOU are living out Matthew 6!!!!!!!!!!!
Brady and I have been able to watch the power of adoption first hand as Brady’s sister, Jamie has traveled to Rwanda twice to bring home our niece and nephew. Holding Gabby and Tiki in my arms makes me realize the Love the
Father has for us. He has adopted each of us into His family! Praise His name! The fact that He can love me more than I love those two precious kiddos is BEYOND my comprehension! Gabby and Tiki were my niece and nephew from the very beginning. It was always His plan to bring them into our family and they fit PERFECTLY! I often tell people that I don’t think I’ve ever seen Jesus like I do when I look into the heart of my Sister-in-law and what her and their family has gone through to complete their family.


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Throw-away babies
It is unthinkable how many thousands of diseased, starving orphans and vulnerable babies in Africa die because there is no one who can care for them. The situations can be horrific: Many have parents that have died due to the HIV/AIDS epidemic, others come from families ground down by poverty and simply unable to afford to feed them.
You will find abandoned babies – often in plastic bags – along the roadside, in garbage areas, or in ditches, discarded by desperate, sometimes dying mothers.
The fortunate ones, however, find themselves at the doorstep of churches or faith-based ministries, like the Kondanani Children’s Village in Malawi.
Making a difference in Africa
Annie Chikhwaza, founder of Kondanani Children’s Village in Malawi, Africa, shares about one infant recently admitted to the orphanage:
“We named him Wilson,” says Annie. “The little man was not in very good condition when we received him – he must have been fed with dirty bottles or utensils. His little mouth was full of thrush (an oral infection known as oral candidiasis).”
“His grandmother really tried very hard to care for him,” says Annie, “But the old dear had to give up. Poverty made it impossible for her to care for her grandchild.” Then Annie smiles and says, “We are so privileged to take care of Wilson.”
However, without a plentiful supply of milk and nutrient-dense food, babies like Wilson will suffer from a wide array of malnutrition-related disorders. Some are irreversible and can keep a youngster from ever developing into a normal, healthy adult.
How much is enough?
Corners can be cut and funds stretched in some areas, but definitely not in the quantity or quality of the food these growing children need.
How much is enough? The goal is not to feed the children just enough to barely get by, but to give them what they need in order to thrive.
Physical and spiritual food
Milk is not the only food necessary for life at Kondanani: The children also receive spiritual food. Each one is being taught the Word of God and having the Gospel shared with them each and every day.
Annie aims to provide a genuine home and family life to the children who grow up at Kondanani. It is her prayer that, when they are old enough to graduate from the school, they not only leave as well-educated young adults, but “feeling they have had a wonderful childhood… and knowing Jesus Christ as Lord.”
Can you help Annie and Cross International assure that these children are well fed…physically and spiritually?
Can you give $10 to feed one orphan for a month?
Click here to donate on-line safely and securely. If 221 people give $10 apiece, that will feed every orphan at Kondanani for one month.
Click here to make a difference by providing food for an African orphan today.
Thank you for serving ‘the least of these’ in Jesus’ name.
Chuck Burge
P.S. If your church worship team would like free music & video to present a song about caring for orphans, please go to my blog for details: www.HarmonyBlog.org
WINNER- APRIL!! april says: March 6, 2010 at 9:38 AM email me.
I love the Oscars. The crazy night of glamour, Hollywood’s annual love fest is almost here. The night when the stars
drop from their limos in their most attention-getting outfits, tasteful or not… we all know we wish we had one. I love to snicker at the unflattering costumes. I groan as the stars prattle on endlessly during their thank you speeches. I cringe in anticipation of the musical acts – will they be impressive or a snooze? But love it or hate it, like millions of other Americans, I’ll be glued to the television watching the Oscars. So, come join me…. we are going to have our own bloggy Oscar Party. Don’t forget to print off your Oscar Ballots and have plenty of popcorn & mm’s.
Adorable site with yummy Oscar recipes & fun ideas- Bakerella.com
Ok, lets have an Oscar Giveaway- winner announced directly after the show.
1.) I want to know what your favorite movie was this year or 2.) you can pick the 5 winners from the categories listed below. Just leave me a comment.
You win 2 movie tickets (a $25 entertainment gift card)
If you could join me tonight on the red carpet, what would you wear?

I only saw a few of the movies nominated for an Oscar, but I’m dying to know who you are voting for. Lets just bloggy vote for these Top 5 Categories. Cast your votes in the comments & you might win the giveaway. I’ll announce the red carpet winner after the Oscars.
Ballot Download
Print double-sided onto 8.5×11″ card stock and fold in half length wise. Coordinate with red pens.
I’m voting for…
And with a pair of Spanx, I might be able to fit into the white dress:)
(all Oscar images & links found online just for fun)
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I’m so honored to introduce you to the Patterson Family! You will be inspired tremendously from their adoption story and the miracles God has poured abundantly. You can visit Lorraine’s amazing blog- All Are Precious in His Sight and join together to pray for sweet Chrissie!
Here’s their adoption story:
We are a growing adoptive family: Matt (39), Lorraine (38), Parker (bio, age 13), Meribeth (Colombia, age 12, adopted at age 11), Mattie (bio, age 12), Sawyer (bio, age 9), and Chrissie (Serbia, age 4, adopted at age 4 with severe congenital heart defects). We don’t know how many children God plans to share with us, but we have joyfully and wholeheartedly said, “Yes, Lord…” (and there’s not a period at the end of that statement). It’s open. We’re open. Open hearts. Open minds. Open home. Open to whomever God chooses to bless us with, no matter what color, size, age, ability (or disability); if God calls us to rescue a particular child (or children), our instant answer is, “Yes, Lord…”.
We weren’t always this way. God has done many miracles in our lives. We didn’t always know we would be an adoptive family. We weren’t always passionate about adoption…until God called us. Proverbs 24:12 reminds us, “Once our eyes are opened, we can’t pretend we don’t know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows that we know, and holds us responsible to act.”
God began this journey with us back in 2003, but we didn’t realize exactly what He had in store as He began preparing our hearts for adoption. At that time, our children were 3, 5, and 7, and God introduced us to an amazing family who lived in our neighborhood who also homeschooled. The mom, Stephanie, became a dear friend of mine, and her two daughters, Emily and Samantha (ages 9 and 11 at the time) felt like they were a part of our family. Then their father abandoned them and chose to live with another woman in another state. Crushed. Abandoned. But not forgotten. Our Father loved this precious family dearly, and He called our family to stand in the gap as their earthly father walked out. My husband, Matt, stepped up to be their dad. We took Emily and Samantha on vacations with us, they came to our house daily, and they were included in family celebrations, holidays, etc. as if they were our own children. Stephanie did as well. This was God’s way of turning our hearts toward adoption. Even though we didn’t legally adopt Samantha and Emily (as they have a wonderful, loving mom), God gave us the model of His plan for adoption. Psalm 68:5-6a assured us to live out this life with joy, regardless of “legal adoption” status, “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families…”.
God has a family chosen for every single orphan out there. He loves each of them dearly. He promises in John 14:18 to not leave us as orphans. That means every one of us, regardless of how we became orphaned, regardless of what that might look like to the world, regardless of how much money it might cost, regardless of how challenging it may be. He loves us that much. And more.
In November, 2007, God called us to adopt an 11-year-old girl from Colombia who had suffered a traumatic life. She had lost her mother to cancer, her grandmother to brain damage, her father to prison, plus she had suffered more abuses throughout her eleven years of life than any of us will endure in our lifetime. We said yes. Meribeth became our “legal” forever daughter on November 16, 2008, and her life has been turned from hopeless to rescued. It’s all God. He has worked miracles in our daughter’s life, and while the path has been filled with many bumps, bruises, setbacks and challenges, saving the life of one child is worth it. That’s what Christ does for us. (Although we haven’t endured anything in comparison to what Christ endured for us.) It’s all about love. Unconditional love. The kind of love that doesn’t require anything in return. The kind of love we’re not able to give on our own. It’s all God. We can do all things through Christ who gives us strength. (Philippians 4:13)
In June 2009, God called us to rescue a 4-year-old girl in Serbia who would die in her country of heart failure. The cardiologists in American said her condition wasn’t compatible with life. Until God sent us His cardiologist. Dr. Mary Porisch contacted our family to let us know that she would be willing to help Chrissie if we chose to adopt her. Another medical missionary cardiologist, “Dr. Kirk”, encouraged us to follow God’s calling, and not allow the world’s warped opinion to deter us from obeying God. We said yes. (We actually said yes before we ever talked to a cardiologist about her heart conditions because God asked us to obey His calling, regardless of the outcome. He used this scripture to speak His desire into our hearts, “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is within the power of your hand to do so.” Proverbs 3:27) We had the power to rescue Chrissie, regardless of the outcome, and all we had to do was say yes. We couldn’t let Chrissie perish. We set out to adopt this sweet little girl, and in October 2009, Chrissie became our “legal” forever daughter. Even with all of her dire medical conditions, emotional scars, physical scars, abandonment issues, and all that an orphan is forced to deal with, Chrissie is the most joyful girl you’ll ever meet. Filled with joy. Overflowing. It’s all God. She is our miracle girl, and we’re so blessed that God chose us as her forever family.
Our entire family, from the tallest to the smallest, has been deeply touched by adoption. Forever changed in ways that only God can do as He builds our forever family. We are learning valuable things like selflessness, serving, giving and loving as God teaches us the real meaning of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23) And the greatest of these is love. If we have not love, we are nothing. ( 1 Corinthians 13)
We know God has more children chosen for us. We don’t know who, when, how many or where, but our answer is, “Yes, Lord…”. The children are worth it.
New Update today on Chrissie from mom:
Chrissie was recently hospitalized for her metapneumovirus, they had to do a chest x-ray, and they discovered that the stent that the cardiologist put into one of Chrissie’s arteries has fractured. It’s in an area that goes into her lung where she has TINY blood flow to begin with. (There’s no blood flow from her heart to her lungs, but God created some God-made vessels in her neck that work independently of the heart to get blood to the lungs…an amazing miracle.) Anyway, the one vessel that goes into one of her lungs was very narrowed with only a TINY passageway for blood to get through, so the cardiologist put a stent in back in November. It was a grueling procedure for her, as the vessel nearly burst and the stent couldn’t expand to its full capacity b/c the vessel was too hard and constricted and all sorts of issues. Anyway, that stent is “fractured” now, which means that there are several pieces of it that have broken off. The cardiologist may need to try to repair that before Chrissie’s open heart surgery, but she needs another CAT scan to be able to determine blood flow rates, etc. through that area. The CAT scan must be done under anesthesia, which is another hospital stay for our little traumatized darling. We don’t yet know when they’ll do the CAT scan either b/c her immune system must be strong. (The cardiologist said that going under anesthesia can cause the body to revert back to lung/pulmonary distress, so they want to wait till Chrissie’s body is fully recovered from this metapneumovirus.)

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I’m so excited to have special guest blogger, Sumer who just came back from a 14 day mission trip with Visiting Orphans in Uganda and Ethiopia. We only have 1 more spot open for my crazy team of 25. Please take time today to pray and ask- are you the 1?
Sumer’s Testimony: When looking over the itinerary for my upcoming Visiting Orphans trip to Uganda and Ethiopia, I knew that it was going to be difficult emotionally. Although, I was beyond excited to go and to get to be the hands and feet of Jesus, I had read pretty much the complete catalog of Katie Davis blog posts, and I knew that this work was not glamorous in the earthly sense. But it was pure and undefiled religion in the sight of God – it was glamorous in His eyes.
And of all the places I was to visit on my trip, there was only one that I dreaded…the trash dump. How do you walk away from a child so destitute and deprived that they live and eat in piles of garbage? At least at first, I had envisioned them as just little piles of garbage. I later found out that it is actually mountains of trash as far as the eye can see. And yet, what could I do for them in my one day? Their plight seemed hopeless.
The night before we were to visit these children, I had the privilege of hearing Sammy’s story. Sammy grew up in Korah, a community next to the landfill that began as a leper colony and is now made up of close to 80,000 societal outcasts. The people of Korah are considered untouchable by most, and thousands of them eat from the trash dump daily. Sammy spent his childhood collecting food from the landfill. He acknowledges that it is only by God’s grace that he was able to eventually go to school and get a job. He spends his free time ministering to the orphan children who still live there. Sammy reminded me that our God is hope for the hopeless.
The next day was Christmas Day in Ethiopia and standing in that horrendous place that I had dreaded so much, I knew I was right where God wanted me to be. We served the children a traditional Ethiopian dinner, passed out clothes, and candy, and party hats, and listened to them sing Happy Birthday to Jesus in their beautifully broken English. Later, another team member said she was glad that she went, but she would never go back. I thought to myself I will go back everyday until every child that lays their head down to sleep in that landfill has a home and the hope that only a relationship with Jesus Christ can bring.
There are over 100 orphans who live in the city landfill of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. These children have very little hope of a better life. Amazingly, through my time in Africa, God called my family to spend the summer with these children. For the next few months we will work on getting all of them sponsored to go to boarding school in the fall, and then we will spend the summer teaching them English and getting them ready to go to school for the first time.
I will be excited to meet all the members of the Visiting Orphans teams coming this summer, and I will be praying for you as God prepares you hearts for the amazing blessing that meeting the children Ethiopia and Uganda will bring!
Thank you Sumer!!
More Links to read:
Visiting Orphan Mission Trip- Video
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BAILEY’S BLOSSOMS GIVEAWAY WINNER- Jennifer says: March 3, 2010 at 8:48 AM
I love this Chicken Tortilla Soup recipe. I love topping my soup with Fritos, cheese, sour cream and black olives. What is your favorite “garnish” to slop on top of homemade Tex Mex soups?

I loved putting little luv notes in my kiddos lunches. I just scribbled my notes on their napkins. Discover Africa is my favorite set. PenPal Notes were created by parents looking for fun, educational notes for their children’s lunch. This search led to the introduction of Tej- a young panda with an inquisitive mind and a magic carpet that can take him anywhere, anytime. Pack these note cards into your child’s lunch box, write a personal message on the back, and join Tej and your child on a new learning adventure every day! Each learning series contains 20-40 illustrated lunch notes and a set of fun stamp stickers.Do you want to help make adoption #1 mommy blog- all you need to do is click on the button & that grabs your vote. That’s it… click click click. Click button everyday 2 Vote!
This is my very first Blog Tour and I’m so excited to share with you the book, One Million Arrows. Roger and I have been fighting over reading it, but he cheated and took it to the office. He loves the book! It’s the perfect book for all my crazy readers… have you heard about it?
“Will the world change our children…or will our children change the world? Time is short and lives are at stake. Right now, God is inviting our families to become part of a bigger story—a vision that will engage hearts to make a radical difference. One Million Arrows is an inspirational call to raise our kids to impact their culture, community, and world for Christ. If we want our kids to discover their purpose, if we want them to live with passion for the Kingdom, if we want our family to go down in His-Story, accept the mission…and leave a mark for eternity.” (Julie Ferwerda, author)
There is a movement afoot within conservative Christian denominations regarding discipleship of children for kingdom purposes. Julie Ferwerda has added yet another call to disciplining your children with one caveat–she is taking it global.
The book is divided into three parts: Gather, Sharpen, and Launch. Recognizing that the time is short, and the need great, Julie exhorts all parents to disciple their children to impact the world instead of the world impacting their children. In her part on gathering, she lays out a plan for the parents to chart their own course with their families and to hop on board the one million arrows campaign and challenges each family to own the mission of disciplining their children.
Part two guides the parents in gathering the arrows (children) to sharpen them. She helps the reader to understand how to shape your arrows in your home and beyond. In so doing, you will ultimately be able to send your arrows off into the world to impact the kingdom of God.
The final part of the book is how to launch your arrows. This can be a difficult process for all parents while also being perhaps one of the most rewarding times in a parent’s life.
Throughout the book, you get to know Papa–Dr. M.A. Thomas. He was the inspiration behind the book and the movement, One Million Arrows. She shares about Papa that God gave him the vision of gathering one million orphaned and abandoned children, sharpening them as “arrows for God,” and launching them to start one million churches in the these communities of India who had never heard the name of Jesus. He has been faithfully working toward the vision since, and today he has launched 16,000 orphan arrows as ambassadors of Christ into India, and planted 21,000 churches.
Julie Ferwerda has accomplished two great goals. First, she has penned a biblical call for discipleship to take place in the home. Second, she has given due honor to a man who influenced her life, ministry, and mission.
I believe she sums up best the heart behind the book. She writes, “I have underestimated what God can do through my kids now” (144). Most parents, myself included, grossly underestimate what their children are capable of at young ages.
With blurbs from Christians like Josh McDowell, Dr. Alvin Reid, and Franklin Graham, Julie has come out firing on all cylinders so to speak. One Million Arrows is an excellent book that deserves the attention of every parent. The book can be used in churches to challenge families to raise their children with the intent of impacting the kingdom in the future. You can learn more about the movement at One Million Arrows.
Links to Amazon & retailers
The book is available through Amazon and other online retailers. Visit the One Million Arrows How to Order page for full details as well as information about church, ministry, and bulk orders.
How can you help? Add the One Million Arrows button on your blogs and spread the word. Please leave Julie a special comment here today and encourage her to continue challenging crazy families to make a difference in this world.

God dropped a new project right in my lap. 1 Bin (Rubbermaid) + 1 Orphanage (Haiti Home) + 1 Heart (you) = 1 life saved (orphans) My friend, Steve Ijames (photo) just returned from Haiti and asked me to help bring powdered formula to Pignon Haiti. This is a mountainous village located about 35 miles from Cap Haitian and 100 miles from Port Au Prince, but the drive takes a crazy 3 1/2 hours. The orphanage is called
Haiti Home of Hope and Bill and Jennifer Campbell currently have 48 children (but every day more come) What I love about this project, I am working out the details to travel with the small team and hand deliver the bins filled with formula directly to the orphanage- Baby Food Hand Out. (Pray!) If you would like to donate and help me fill rubbermaid bins (as many as we can stuff!) with powdered formula, please know that the items will be hand delivered in a few weeks to Haiti. You can donate on my Paypal (just write Haiti Formula in notes) or mail me powdered formula- email me.
- any amount will help!
If you want to peek at the orphanage on Google Earth Picture- here you go: Click the link below to see where Haiti Home of Hope is located. http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&hl=en&geocode=&q=19.34436,-72.12175&ll=19.34436,-72.12175&ie=UTF8&z=12&om=1
Photographer, Don Fuhr traveled with the team last week and was able to capture photos of the orphans and their tragedies from the earthquake- physically and emotionally. Here is his personal testimony from his time in Pignon.
Our trip in a nutshell:
“From Port Au Prince it is about 57 miles to Pignon ”as the crow flies”, but we actually flew into Cap Haitien, which is much closer to Pignon, at about 23 miles as the crow flies and travelled to Pignon from there. I’m not sure how many actual road miles it is,
but Steve is right, it was the worst road I have ever travelled to actually get someplace. We commented on how much fun (and quicker) it would be on our motorcycles, but sitting in the bed of the truck it was a bit rough. It was raining when we left Cap Haitien and Steve and I had brought rain ponchos so we volunteered to sit in the bed as there were six of us including Bill, who was driving, and the cab would only hold four. The trip took us about 2 hours and 45 minutes. It is a pretty typical mountain road in that it is very curvy, but is also washed out in a number of places and rocky, pot-holed and extremely rough everywhere else. I would estimate our average speed at around 10 MPH – often much slower. Jeep clubs would love it!
There are two river crossings (no bridge) not too far out of Pignon. When you cross those you know you are getting close (about 20 minutes away). During the trip we had to alternate between sitting and standing while holding onto the roll bar so we didn’t get pitched out of the truck. It was too painful to sit for long because of the extremely rough conditions and no padding other than what God saw fit to equip us with. I realized that in spite of what people have told me, I didn’t have near enough padding! So, we’d stand until our arms were tired of holding on, then sit until our posteriors were tired of the pounding, then stand, then sit… I tried to take a photo while we were moving – once. I abandoned that idea pretty quickly and waited until we had stopped before taking any more. In one of the photos on the DVD you will see a couple of buses on a dirt road with people all around them. They are stopped behind a third bus that was broken down. We were able to go around it by driving up an embankment using 4-wheel drive. We learned the next day that the bus was still there and had blocked a number of less capable vehicles from proceeding any further. News in that region travels by cell phone and personal contact. There is no “Traffic Update” on your local radio station to warn you of such problems, so Bill spent several minutes on the phone calling some local friends to warn them about the road block.

This is Peterson. He is 10 (they think). He and his younger brother were the only two earthquake survivors among his family and they wandered the streets for a number of days before they were taken in by a Canadian medical relief team. At some point, Peterson and his brother became separated in a crowd on the street and the whereabouts of Peterson’s brother is still unknown. When the Canadian medical team had to leave, they could not find any place in Port au Prince to take him and could not bear leaving Peterson to wander the streets again. They finally made contact with the Haiti Home of Hope orphanage who took him in. One of our goals when we return is to find his brother for him. This photo and two others I took at the same time are the only two in which he is not smiling. The others shots are of him with the other kids. In spite of the tragedy he endured and survived, he is able to find reasons to smile at the orphanage. When he slowed down and stood still for this photo, some of what he had endured seemed to come through in his eyes.
This is Mika (Mee-ka). Age unknown, but probably early teens. She and her mother, Daline, are the only survivors among her family. Her father and all siblings (number unknown) were all killed in the quake. Mika’s feet were pinned in rubble for over 8 hours before she could be freed. It was several days before she could get medical attention and her feet were so badly injured, the doctors told her mother that they would have to amputate both feet. The life of any Haitian is hard, let alone after having both feet amputated, so her mother, Daline, told the doctors to let Mika die rather than suffer the hardships she would have to endure in a life in Haiti with no feet. Fortunately, the doctors in Port au Prince could not do the surgery there and Mika was airlifted to the hospital in Pignon where a group of U.S. doctors were conducting an annual mission trip. Several orthopedic specialists were among the group and after several surgeries, they were able to save most of Mika’s feet. The Campbells are providing food and shelter until Mika is well enough to travel back to Port au Prince. The photo shows Mika helping to change the dressings on her feet, which has to be done daily.

There are so many stories that I did not get the chance to learn in my less than two days there. My goal when I return is to document and photograph more of them and those of the people that are touched by the Campbell family that run the Haiti Home of Hope orphanage. Their ministry goes far beyond the orphans and extends well into the surrounding community, feeding starving babies and helping families through other of life’s tragedies that seem to be everywhere in Haiti.”
Thank you Don for sharing your gift of photography and allowing us to wrap our hearts around each precious face. We can all make a difference. Email me or donate on our personal Paypal account- click button.
I will purchase formula starting next week. Thank you bloggy friends!
SNEEK PEEK NEW VIDEO- post it on your blogs today! This song was written & performed by my friend Jennafer White (sooo proud of you!)
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You need to raise $3,400 for our Visiting Orphans mission trip. Is this holding you up from joining our crazy team? If it is, we want to share some fundraising ideas that really work! If you have the heart to join us, raising funds will be the easy part! Take a peek at my past 3 posts on our Uganda/Ethiopia Mission trip for more information. Sign up today- only 2 spots left. We need some more men, hubbys & dads to MAN UP… come protect & love the fatherless. Please pass on info to someone you think should be a part of my crazy mission trip!!
My co-leader Ashlie suggests:
1. Donation Letters- Make it personal!!!! Put your heart into it. Stay in touch with people, talk about the trip whenever you can.
2. Start a Blog- Just do it!!!! www.blogspot.com My crazy blog sister, Nikki Cochrane will design your new blog header (the top design art) and column sides and help you get your blog going. She has hundreds of kits available for you to customize your new blog or give it a face lift. SPECIAL OFFER: if you contact her and tell her My Crazy Adoption sent you, she will give you a $5 discount ($25 to customize your blog) EMAIL NIKKI – Blogs For A Cause. Just tell her My Crazy Adoption sent you.
1. Applebees- Dining to Donate 10% of sales for 5 hours!!!! All it took was a phone call to the store Manager and I had 3 different dates! Applebees even provides the flyer. All we have to do is print it and pass it out. We are going to stand at the back of the church and personally hand the flyer to each and everyone of our church members. In addition, you can stand outside of Applebees and ask the customers coming in the door to give a flyer to their waiter. We are hoping to raise $1,000 each night. (Warning= no take-outs and customers have to give their flyer to the waiter)
2. Kohls- A-Team Volunteers- All you need to do is request 5 or more volunteers from Kohls for a 2 hour event, such as an Easter Festival, Parents Night Out, Church Landscaping, etc. The volunetters will come and work AND you will get $500.00 for your organzation!!!!! Check out http://www.kohlscorporation.com/communityrelations/Community04.htm
3. African Mission Spaghetti Dinner- We are pre-selling $10.00 tickets for a Spaghetti Dinner at our church. Dinner includes Spaghetti, Garlic Bread, Salad, and Dessert. We are also going to have a silent auction. We are designing themed baskets, such as Family Game Night, Day of Beauty, Tampa Bay Buccaneers, Dinner and Dancing, etc. We are hoping to get most of the items donated.
4. Parents Night Out- We are offering babysitting on a Saturday Night, from 6-10 at our church. We are request donations from parents. This is simple and requires no upfront cost, just marketing.

Here are more ideas from bloggy friend, Big Nanny who just went on a 14 day mission trip with Visiting Orphans. Here’s what she had to say about fundraising for missions:
Yes, we did lots of fundraising for our trip. We were in a unique position because 3 of us were on staff at our church so we had lots of contacts and were able to do some special fundraisers. Here is what we did & the results:
We go to a very missions supportive church so they let us do a lot of things that most churches do not. And because we are on staff, we got to do a few things that most people wouldn’t have the opportunity to do.
Other people that we know have done some of these:
Again, the 3 of us fundraised as a team from the beginning and had almost $12,000 to raise if you include our vaccinations. We raised all of it. The only money that we spent was our VO $200 application fees. It was truly a God thing. We even had an extra $1000 to give away when we got there. We were called to this trip and it was all God putting everything together to make it happen.
If you have any other questions for Angela/Big Nanny. You can email her at aspencer@thompsonstationchurch.org
I’m glad to know that I’m not the only crazy one:)
Mr. IPod Touch Ozark Adventure was my big crazy Haiti mission trip fundraiser. If you’re new here, and want to see the two weeks of craziness, check this out- My Mission Trip Fundraiser!!

Here’s how to Copy Cat my IPod Fundraiser:
Britt Nicole JUST returned from a Visiting Orphans mission trip- 14 days to Uganda & Ethiopia. Take a peek at her blog and photos and testimony. Click here- Britt Nicole Music blog
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Do you feel like you’re going a little crazy coming to my blog and seeing T shirts again? I never wanted to delve into the apparel business, but I have to tell you… I’m crazy about adoption T shirts! I have officially completed HopeChest Project and now ready to offer you MY Simply Love Africa T shirts that support our 2nd adoption. We are adopting an older girl from Ethiopia and can’t wait to bring her home. 100% of proceeds from our T shirts go directly into our adoption account. Thank you for wrapping your heart & supporting my next crazy adoption. Love will always find a way!
T SHIRT BLITZ ENDS APRIL 4th!! You should receive your T shirts 7-10 days after your order. My Mens T shirt shipment arrives on Thursday (2-25) thanks for waiting for Man Up!!
Simply Love Africa is our fundraiser for our 2nd adoption to Ethiopia. Every T shirt helps us bring our new daughter home. 100% of proceeds goes directly into our adoption account. We ask that when you wear our T’s that you pray for our family throughout the adoption process this year. Thank you for your support, prayers, and cheers!
The Women’s T shirts are UNISEX extra soft and they will fit like a unisex/men cut- loose & roomy like your hubbys T. (ladies… this is NOT A SLIM SHIRT!!!) The black T has Tiffany blue swirls and the saying on the back- Love Will Always Find A Way. The verse Phillipians 4:6-7 surround Africa. (special note- all Canada & International- email me for additional shipping costs)


The Men’s T shirts are extra soft and fit normal. The army green T has black, red colors- and the saying on the back “Man Up. Protect and Love the Fatherless. The verse Philippians 4:6-7 surrounds Africa. (special note: for Canada & International -additional shipping costs necessary- email me.)


YOUTH T’S- I need to have pre-order of 25 youth T’s before I can sell. Email me.
Coming home with a new adopted child is challenging, joyful, scary as heck, exhausting and miraculous all wrapped up in love. You want to be prepared and realistic about feelings that might come out of the craziness and turn life upside down for a period of time. I’m so excited to have my first guest blogger, Kari Potthoff share some great adoption tips to help soothe the homecoming jitters. She shares honestly and with a big dose of reality with helpful advice to support adoption homecomings…
Welcome Home Adoption:
There are nine families on their way home this weekend from Kenya with their beautiful new children from Rwanda. It has been interesting watching their travels as they had a rather different experience then us. Something I have been meaning to blog about is the often not discussed issue of
homecoming. Regardless of how easy or difficult a family’s time in country obtaining their child is they will experience bumps when they get home. Yes, it is easier for some then others depending on so many factors; the age of the child, the number of children adopted, gender, health, personality, prior quality of care, the children already home and the family’s level of preparation prior to travel. There is something called post-adoption depression and I think it is more common then adoptive parents (mainly mothers because they usually are the primary caretakers upon arrival home), want to admit. But the reality is that after 12 months of completing paperwork and background checks and saving and fundraising that homecoming is often not the wonderful, peaceful experience that one might have hoped it to be. A good social worker will educate adoptive parents about this but often no matter how prepared they are it is still dang hard.
At minimum after arriving home the family will be exhausted and jet lagged. Often the adopted kidos may sleep unusually well and not show any problematic behaviors for the first few weeks. But after they recover their energy and get settled the most challenging period of adjustment begins. Again this varies greatly, some families may not have any issues. For sure though if they have welcomed a child over the age of 2 years into their home they are going to have to work through some behaviors and difficult adjustment at times. There are also specific medical issues that need to be dealt with when a child is adopted from Africa such as parasites, GI issues, and malnutrition. If a child has lived in a orphanage for a extended time (more then 6 months) then they probably are going to have developmental delays as well.
So basically what I am saying is that the first few months home are a critical period for the new family and they will need the support and understanding of their family, friends, coworkers and community. At this same time parents will need time to focus on what is called “attachment parenting”. If extended family and friends do not understand what that means their can be tension during visits and the relationship between the adoptive family and child can be compromised. Here are some basic recommendations that I am providing to family, friends, coworkers, church members, neighbors, anyone who wants to help a family who has just arrived home with a internationally adopted child (I think it is a bit different for domestic or foster/adopt but you may be able to relate). Some of these we have received and others I wish we would have. I will say though, that it was interesting to me the differences in how people responded to the birth of our son, versus the adoption of our daughter, and then the adoption of our second son. I will let you decide what I might mean by that.

That certainly is not a extensive list of how to help but I think this got long enough. Any questions? Feel free to leave a comment and I will do my best to answer.
Kari Neubauer Potthoff, PhD
Licensed School Psychologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
kneubauerpotthoff@gmail.com
MY CRAZY TALK: Please share your crazy homecoming stories. Did you feel support or lost when you came home? What is one helpful thing your family or friends did to make your adoption homecoming special or feel supported? If you have not had your homecoming yet, share with us what you think you might need from your community of adoption cheerleaders.
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